Author Archives: Tereasa Jones
Simple Steps for Overcoming Anxiety
Feeling anxious? You aren’t alone. Anxiety disorders are the most common mental disorder in the United States, affecting approximately 40 million adults. This is approximately 18% of our population. It seems that many of my clients are currently dealing with anxiety. Many of them are at the point where they are having difficulty sleeping […]
Decisions, Decisions
Every waking moment is filled with a multitude of choices. Our brains are constantly analyzing our environments, sorting important information and stimuli from what is essentially background noise. What should we pay attention to? What should we pursue? Even what we consider routine is awash in decisions to be made. Often, the first thing we […]
Shiny New Objects: 5 Questions to Ask Before Moving On
Many of my clients have difficulty moving forward because they switch gears and start working on another project that might be interesting, but do nothing to further their current project. Changing personal paths too often can be dangerous enough, but it becomes even more worrisome with entrepreneurs. The term “Shiny New Object Syndrome” has […]
Interruptions: The Cost, Plus 7 Ways to Stay on Track
People experience an interruption of some sort approximately every ten minutes. Furthermore, it takes an average of five to ten minutes to recover from an interruption. Five minutes is the amount of time it takes you to reorient while the ten minute span may be necessary to get yourself back into the “space” you […]
FRIENDS ARE IMPORTANT – Five Tips To Keep Friends At The Forefront Of Your Mind
Busy lives and fast minds sometimes wreak havoc on friendships. Add ADHD to the mix and it is a recipe for a lot of lonely times and hurt feelings between friends. Here are a few tips to help make staying connected with friends a little easier. 1. Go through emails and contacts and sort people […]
Five Tips to Improve Your Relationships
With or without ADHD people need help with relationships. But those with ADHD need a little “extra” help. The tips below have come from working with people with ADHD for many years. I think they will help you too! Educate yourself. Know how ADHD shows up for you. This allows you to develop strategies to […]
Decisions, Decisions! Not Easy for Adults with ADHD
A friend is writing a book about decision management. She says that you can’t manage time, but you can manage decisions. I think she might be right unless…….You have ADHD. Decisions are difficult for people with ADHD. Because decisions are difficult many times they over-complicate an issue. They take a walk down the “What If” […]
What Are Your Comfort Things?
A friend called to give me an update on the status of her mother who had been in the hospital for several weeks. The family, always supportive, sometimes close, sometimes not so close had done a wonderful job of making sure that this much loved mom was not alone during her stay in the hospital. […]
Relationship Energy
When Relationships are new they are exciting and we love spending time together. Energy abounds and we can’t wait for the next time we see the new person in our lives. Everything is fresh, new, and exciting. This level of energy is hard to sustain though, and it isn’t long before we feel the relationship […]
Are We Trying To Do Too Much?
Multitasking has become a buzz word in today’s world. It used to be “He who has the most toys before he dies wins.” Now I wonder if it is “She who juggles the most tasks wins.” There is no doubt that we are expected by society, our jobs, peers, and families to do many things well in the same 24 hours that we have always had. The expectation of society is big problem in a lot of areas, but who is “society?” Isn’t that us, you and me?
The term “multitasking” originated in the computer world. It simply means that computers are able to do many tasks at the same time. However, even that is not really true. It is just that computers can flip back and forth between tasks very rapidly. So can we, but at what cost? There has been a lot of research on this multitasking thing recently. It turns out that we are shortchanging ourselves in many ways when we attempt to multitask. If our reason for multitasking is that we want to save time, we might want to rethink that. Research is pointing to the fact that we really can’t put out attention on more than one thing at a time, but, like the computer, we can flip from one thing to another rapidly. The cost, however, is that, unlike the computer, our brains need to have time to refocus on each task each time we turn to it. This refocusing time, actually costs us time in the long run. We may feel like we are getting more done, but the time wasted on refocusing really adds up in the course of a day. Not only does it take longer to complete tasks, but research is also saying that the results we get on all of our tasks are not nearly as good as they would be if we had focused on each of them exclusively.