Self Discovery and Readiness:
All people yearn for love. We were designed to be in relationship. Choosing a life partner is among the most important things you will ever do in your life. If you choose wisely, your life will be considerably happier, and according to recent research, you might even live longer! Research indicates that married people tend to live longer than those who remain single. Not surprisingly, those people who are happily married tend to have the longest lives.
There are several things we will cover in Singles Coaching, but perhaps the most important thing we will do is work on you! The single most important thing that prevents people from having wonderful relationships is their own beliefs. We call the beliefs that get in the way of creating the life and relationship that you desire limiting beliefs. You have belief systems about all sorts of things and those belief systems provide the lens through which you view the world. Through our work together you will be able to learn to listen with new filters (belief systems) and improve communication with the people you care about.
If you have ADD/ADHD you most likely have additional challenges. There is no reason for you to live your life alone when you want a life partner. Together we can work on the areas of your life that make sustaining relationships hard for you. We will also look at all the wonderful things that you will bring to the table when you meet your life partner. Having ADD/ADHD is a challenge for sure, but it can also be a delightful blessing. I will show you how!
The essential ingredient that is missing in many relationships is the knowing of oneself. Your relationship with yourself will determine your success in your relationships with others.
Attraction:
In this phase of Singles Coaching we will develop a step by step approaching to finding your life partner. We will do this by:
- Expanding your social network and community
- Defining places where you can meet potential partners
- Identifying relationship skills that need improvement or refinement
- Setting goals for practicing and improving your relationship skills
- Practice sorting, screening, and testing potential partners
In short, after going through these two phases you will be more than equipped to find the love of your life and have a strong foundation for making the relationship work for a life-time.
Contact me for more information about Singles Coaching.